I took this one a few days ago. I didn’t specifically set out to find this little guy and was actually looking for something else when I saw him fluttering around among the clover. I got a few shots, but this is one of my favorites.
Isn’t it crazy how some people are willing to go broke just to compete with someone else? It seems like everyone in my small little county is like that. Which is exactly why I don’t have friends around here. People are too petty and all too eager to take someone else down to get what they want. I guess it’s like that in any small county/town. I am referencing the whole county because I live in a rural area that has several small towns surrounding it. If you live in the “country” like I do, you probably know what I’m talking about. My best friend lives in Indiana. I think I purposefully made a friend that lives that far off just because there’s no one around here that I care to talk to other than my family. That’s just one of the many reasons I didn’t want anyone around here to know about my blog. I think some people around here just lurk, never comment. I am not sure what they think they will find because I’m really not all that exciting LOL. And if they want to use what I post to compete with me, fine. I’m not going to spend a ton of money trying to compete with other people. I have 3 kids I’d rather spend it on. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t think I’m better than people around here. I just don’t care to be friends with most of them though because all the ones I know are two-faced and are only friends with you if you have something to offer. I don’t have time for people like that. I’d much rather hang out with my hubby and kids 🙂 .
I am not jealous, rather aggravated that something I wrote in my blog was used to compete with me. It was something so mundane that I didn’t think twice about posting it. I mean if you are going to stalk my blog, at least comment every now and then LOL.
You see, my home is a double wide. I’m paying a mortgage on it so it won’t exactly be “mine” for awhile yet, however it’s more “mine” than anything I ever rented. It’s a little over 2000 sq ft with 4 bedrooms, 3 baths. It’s not extravagant, but it’s mine. If I had wanted a house this size, I would have had to pay a LOT more for it. It’s nice, sturdy and I can paint, and add whatever I want without having to ask a landlord first. But still, there are many people who still turn their nose up at double wides and act as if they are too good to step foot in one. People just can’t seem to wrap their minds about living in one, let alone actually *gasp* buying one. We bought the doublewide because we were tired of renting substandard places that were really too small for us. The rent in this area is extremely high, even for mobile homes. We decided if we were going to pay that much to rent a place, we might as well just buy our own. I don’t understand why some people who own or rent houses have such a snooty attitude towards mobile homes. They are made better than what they used to be. Ours is zoned for high winds. And during storms or high winds, our place doesn’t even budge. We have a shingled roof so just about the only time I know it’s raining is if I hear the thunder.
So stop judging people who live in mobile homes. Most of us are not “trailer trash”. I know I’m certainly not. If you can afford a house, good for you. However, that doesn’t mean you’re better than me.
This is my home. I am just as proud of it as I would be a huge 2 or 3 story home. So think about that before you judge people just because they have a mobile home.
(Ignore the pool under the porch, my hubby has been too afraid to get it out from under there because he’s convinced there’s a snake there. Which actually, there probably is LOL. Oh and my grass needs to be cut…again. It was just cut maybe a week and a half ago.)
Trey’s 8th birthday was yesterday.We are having his party this weekend though because my cousin’s son is exactly a year older than Trey and his birthday party was yesterday. So I figured it would just be easier if I had Trey’s party a week later. But I still tried to make his birthday awesome too. He has been asking for a PS Vita since last year. So we finally got him one. But a few days before his birthday, he was going on and on about a Wii U. I was thinking “Oh no, we’ve already gotten him this PS Vita he’s been wanting for the past 6 months or so”. Trey has always been a night person so he was still up at midnight on his birthday. We called him in the living room and let him open his gift. I was totally expecting him to say “But I wanted a Wii U!” However, that did not happen. When he saw what was in the bag, he started squealing and saying “A PS Vita!!!! This is the best birthday present ever!!” Since then I haven’t heard anything about the Wii U so I think he’s happy with what he got. And if he hadn’t been, then oh well. He would have just had to learn to like the Vita. I would not have exchanged it for a Wii U. We took him out to eat at CiCi’s pizza that night. It wouldn’t have been my choice of eating establishments but it’s what he wanted. And it wasn’t expensive. We topped the night off by walking around Toys R’ Us for an hour or so while he decided what inexpensive toy he wanted. He had a $3 off coupon that he got in the mail that he wanted to use. Let me tell you, trying to find an inexpensive toy in there isn’t easy either. He finally decided on a Crayola white board with crayons. If I had known that’s what he wanted, I would have suggested it a lot earlier. It would have kept us from walking aimlessly around the store. The same store clerk asked us at least twice if we were finding everything ok LOL. But as long as he had a fun day,that’s all that matters.
It still doesn’t seem like he should be 8. Kids grow up entirely too fast!